Birth Affirmations

helping you have an empowered birth

Birth Affirmations, written and illustrated by Susan Singer, offers you 69 affirmations, positive statements of belief, which will help you develop an empowered, positive mindset for giving birth and being with your precious baby.  The affirmations are accompanied by 29 exquisite drawings which evoke a sense of the sacred and profound nature of new life. This book is a guide, a support, a tool, a reminder of just how amazing you are and how perfect the birthing process is, no matter what. 

Review from The Latched Mama Blog, Jan 14, 2016:

In one of the final sessions of our childbirth class, the teacher walked us soon-to-be-mamas and our partners through putting together our birth plans. Most of us ended up in the class because we hoped to experience birth with minimal medical interventions. With that in mind, she encouraged us to come up with a few affirmations to comfort our fears and help us embrace the hard work that is pregnancy and birth.

I had two: “I can do anything for a day.” and “I am in good hands.”

While I don’t remember if I actually said either of these aloud—I do remember shouting “OPEN!” to my cervix a few times, though—they both ran on a loop in my brain for the entirety of my labor and delivery. Good thing because I labored for over 22 hours, so almost an actual day. And since a C-section was necessary to bring our son into the world safe and sound, my faith in God and my doctors was key in owning that experience.

Sure, my birth didn’t follow the bulleted list I put together, with my husband but it was still thrilling and beautiful and mine. I don’t doubt that those affirmations played a huge part in giving me that perspective.

Richmond, Virginia-based artist and writer Susan Singer offers mothers-to-be the opportunity to create that same experience with Birth Affirmations.

As Singer explains in the book’s introduction:

“When I was pregnant with my second child, I received a small book of handwritten birth affirmations from a friend. I greedily opened the book and read powerful words that connected me with the universality of birth: ‘I birth my baby like billions of women before me.’ ‘I know how to birth my baby.’ I breathed in the natural wisdom and beautiful vision contain within that collection. each day of my pregnancy, I read the words and absorbed them as my own, adding new affirmations as they occurred to me.”

According to Singer’s Amazon biography, her own experience with the power of birth affirmations inspired her to create small books of her own to share with friends when they were pregnant. Meanwhile, she branched out from her craft roots and started painting and drawing, eventually creating a series of pregnant nudes. Finally, in 2015, Singer put her writing and artistic talents together and created a book—a sweet, little square of a book—that uses words and images to guide women through the challenges and joys that come with bringing life into the world.

The book is divided into five sections. The first four sections—My Pregnant Body, Giving Birth, After the Birth, and Nursing—include affirmations related to their respective stages, encouraging the mother to honor and celebrate what her body is doing for her and her baby. She often offers words that, back when I was a mother-to-be/new mother, would never have occurred to me as something I needed to hear. Some of my favorites…

“This baby will birth in his or her perfect timing.”

“I accept and bless the path by which this baby comes to us.”

“I trust my body.”

“It’s ok to let others care for me while I care for my baby.”

I realize my preference is likely influenced by how I gave birth: in an operating room. But I think the fact that I found affirmations relevant to my experience speaks well of what Singer has done here. Sure, her target audience is likely those working for an intervention-free birth. But that doesn’t always happen. Singer’s carefully crafted phrases acknowledge that and don’t leave out those who might end up with an intervention-full birth, whether by choice or necessity.

Each section also features stunning illustrations drawn from photos friends shared with Singer that celebrating that particular stage of birth and early motherhood. Even though I’m over seven years removed from pregnancy and birth (and have no plans to go back there any time soon…or ever), so many of those images caused a physical reaction in me: lots of tears, a big lump in my throat, and—I’m just going to say it—phantom letdown a few times. It’s thrilling to think about what effect they might have on women who actually will be bringing a baby into the world in the near future.

Singer uses those first four sections to provide inspiration for the fifth and final section of the book. There Singer gives the reader space to write her own affirmations and—eventually—her birth story, helping her create a tangible memory of this amazing journey she and her baby took together.*

Just think about that. Imagine sitting down with your son or daughter and sharing the words that you used as you worked to bring him or her into the world. And then reading about the time you first met “earthside”, as they say.

Excuse me. I have to go weep now.

Susan Singer’s Birth Affirmations can be purchased through Amazon or through her website,birthaffirmationsbook.com. In addition to Birth Affirmations, her website also offers the option of buying a gift set of birth affirmation postcards and prints of the images featured in the book—all of which would make amazing gifts for the women in your life who are about to enter (or re-enter) the magical/terrifying world of new motherhood.

~ http://blog.latchedmama.com/2016/01/14/review-birth-affirmations-by-susan-singer/

Review from JellyFishSticks.com, Feb 29, 2016

This little jewel of a book offers encouragement and reflections for the journey of bringing a baby into this world.  When I started reading, my cheeks probably turned a little red. The sincere affirmations dive into the raw and private questions, worries, and thoughts I imagine all women go through during the stages of new motherhood. Am I going to do a good job? Will I be able to birth my baby? Am I ready for this? What if I can't breastfeed? This book is well suited for those who want to be authentic and genuine about pregnancy, and not console themselves with cliches.

Susan Singer provides women with empowering affirmations, accompanied by her original artwork. Her sketches provide a unique and honest depiction of early motherhood, with a bold twist. It will make a special gift for any mother-to-be with an appreciation for the mysterious and spiritual side of bringing life into this world.

We recently learned that Susan Singer is offering commissioned portraits of babies combining graphite with zentangle patterns. To contact the artist for a commissioned portrait email SusanSingerArt@msn.com

This image makes me smile, and it gives a preview of her bold and honest work...

http://www.jellyfishsticks.com/2016/02/birth-affirmations-by-susan-singer.html

Review from Mothering Magazine, Oct 20, 2015:

"Recently, I was introduced to a wonderful little book from Susan Singer, Birth Affirmationsand felt immediately that every mama could benefit from having these simple, honest phrases at her fingertips before, during and after birth.

Despite the seeming simplicity of birth affirmations, they are a surprisingly powerful tool for pregnant, birthing and new moms. Reading or chanting these short mantras when you feel fearful or doubtful is a light form of meditation that is easily done anywhere. The affirmations Singer supplies are easy to remember and will help any mama find calm and strength when she needs it the most.

In addition, the book is filled with gorgeous, unique illustrations of mothers and babies, created by Singer herself. These drawings add a special depth to the messages and make this book of affirmations truly one of a kind."

Melanie Mayo-Laakso, , http://www.mothering.com/articles/10-birth-affirmations/

"Through the gentleness and strength of her words and pictures, Susan Singer offers the pregnant woman a sense of peace and acceptance, confidence and courage and most of all comfort and inspiration. These well-chosen affirmations and exquisitely moving pictures give the pregnant "soul" a safe place to rest and to contemplate the beauty and wonder of what lies ahead."

Nancy Giglio, CNM, Beloved Richmond, VA Midwife

 "Susan Singer has a gift for making our most vulnerable moments our most powerful through her art and words. Birth Affirmations is one of those little books that feels like a companion. It's a source of comfort, a reminder of strength and a human connection to all the women who have gone before us." 

Patience Salgado, KindnessGirl

 

"This book is a gentle reminder that we have the ability to write the script and create the images that will support us in precisely the way we need.  As a mother, a birth assistant, and an educator, I believe this book is a gift – plain and simple – a gift to all embarking on this sacred and life-altering path of motherhood."

Thérèse Hak-Kuhn, CPBD, CBE and Executive Director of toLabor

 

"[Birth Affirmations] is truly beautiful.  As a nurse who worked in the L&D community for 6 years, I can tell you that it is very empowering, beautiful and tastefully illustrated.  The affirmations are very important for women who are looking for an unmedicated birth, but who may be struggling to understand how they can get through that, or how they are going to find strength in the most difficult parts of labor.  I also really enjoyed the portion on breastfeeding.  I think sometimes we get to the end of the birth and say, 'Whew!  Hard part’s over!' And really, it’s just beginning!  Parenting and breastfeeding aren’t easy at first, and so the book continues to provide strength and uplifting encouragement."

Kathleen Bell, Women's Health Nurse Practitioner, Director of Nursing, CrossOver Ministries

 

"I have just finished devouring your book, one lovely morsel at a time.  I am in awe of the drawings and the affirmations that bring me back to my own birth experiences as if they were yesterday, celebrating the beauty of creation and the power of being a woman.  Thank you so much!"

Susan Buniva, MSW, LCSW, grandmother, enthusiastic reader

 

"I love the book!  You've really captured the natural beauty and power of the birthing experience!  We need more 'affirmation' of that beauty and power in our society."

Mary Griffith, RN, CEO Alpha Omega Nurse Consultants